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Happiness Values​

By Tchiki Davis, MA, PhD
Each of us is different in which aspects of happiness we value. These values affect how we live our lives and, as a result, they affect our emotional experiences. ​So what are your happiness values?
Emotion activities: Happiness values
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What Are Happiness Values?​

Happiness is thought to be made up of positive emotions as well as a sense of purpose or meaning. But the extent to which different aspects of happiness matter to us can vary quite a bit. Maybe you deeply enjoy adventure and newness whereas I deeply enjoy comfort and familiarity. This would mean we value different aspects of happiness.

When you know what aspects of happiness (or emotions) you value, you can better prioritize the experiences that create the positive emotions you desire. That's why getting clear on your happiness values (or emotional values) is a key step on the pathway to happiness.

Activity: What Are Your Happiness Values?​

During this activity, you will get a better understanding of your happiness values. Here we'll be focusing on positive emotions.

From the selection below, please select the 3 positive emotions that you MOST value. You may value many more than 3 positive emotions, but please just pick the top 3 for this activity. Write down your answers below or on a  sheet of paper.
Please select the 3 positive emotions that you MOST value (i.e., you want to feel).
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    Note. Submitting your responses enables us to better understand which emotions people value. If you want to keep your responses, you'll have to save or print this page. Thanks!
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What did people say about their happiness values?

Thank you to everyone who submitted your responses to this activity! We can now share some common themes that emerged among our community.

In the Berkeley Well-Being Institute community, a few themes emerged helping us to better understand people's happiness values. Among this community, many people could be classified into 1 of 3 different types:


1. The Energy Seeker: Energy seekers value emotions like passion, excitement, enthusiasm, confidence, and feeling strong, triumphant, exhilarated, or inspired. 
  • They achieve happiness by planning events to look forward to, having new experiences, getting dressed up to go out, and having lively discussions about interesting topics.
  • If this is you, you may be interested in this article on how to plan a healthful alcohol-free event.

2. The Connection Seeker: Connection seekers value love, connection, passion, appreciation, being interested, or being secure.
  • They achieve happiness by talking and listening, hugging, doing nice things for others, and being in relationships.
  • f this is you, you may be interested in this article on making sure your cellphone doesn't hurt your social connections.

​3. The Goal Seeker: Goal seekers value being productive, inspired, appreciated, satisfied, and sometimes secure, confident, or proud. 
  • They achieve happiness by accomplishing things, setting goals, completing tasks, learning new things, getting organized, being proactive, and celebrating small wins.
  • If this is you, this article on creating your happiness plan might be a good fit.

Note that not everyone was classified as one of these types. Other respondents valued a combination of these things. If you just answered the questions above, ask yourself: Do I fit in one of these categories or am I a mixture?

Other Interesting Findings

​In addition to the value types described above, there were a few other interesting findings.
  • If people valued security, they often also valued confidence. It seemed these two values were related. Read more on boosting confidence.
  • People who valued being calm valued all sorts of other emotions. So calmness didn't seem to fit any particular type of person.
  • People who valued being relaxed tended to use strategies like deep breathing, getting outdoors, drinking tea, and mindfulness to achieve this emotion. Read more on mindfulness.
  • Very few people valued contentment. Perhaps this is because happiness is often prioritized more in American culture than contentment. 
  • People who valued being hopeful indicated that staying present in the moment, letting go, not ruminating on the past, and thinking positive about the future were keys for achieving happiness. Read more on thinking positive.

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About Dr. Tchiki Davis
Dr. Davis is founder of The Berkeley Well-Being Institute. After getting her PhD in psychology at Berkeley, she started creating online content & programs to boost well-being—some of these have reached more than a million people. As author of Outsmart Your Smartphone, and contributor to Psychology Today, The Greater Good Science Center, and Shine Text, Dr. Davis aims to share her insights on happiness & health with people all across the world. Learn more about Dr. Davis.
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