Negative emotions are inevitable. In fact, trying to suppress or ignore negative emotions actually reduces happiness. Instead of avoiding negative emotions, it's best to learn skillful ways of working with your negative emotions to reduce them or transform them into positive emotions.
In this activity, you will practice using an emotion regulation strategy called reappraisal. Reappraisal has been shown to both increase resilience and reduce negative emotions.
Negative reappraisal involves cognitively reframing an event as less negative. For example, let’s say that I dropped my sandwich on the ground and I have nothing else to eat for lunch. I might tell myself that I am better off than people in the world who don’t have any food. Or I might tell myself that it’s not so bad because I can get a snack later in the day.
Activity: Negative reappraisal
For this activity, you will get an example of an event. Practice reappraising this scenario as less negative. Come up with as many reappraisals as you can over the next few minutes.
A kid was making fun of me on the playground