How to Be a More Generous PersonDid you know that generosity and kindness are not only good for others, they promote happiness and well-being. That's right! So here's some simple ways to be a more generous person.
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Generosity is the act of being kind, selfless, and giving to others. Despite being an act that is done to benefit others' well-being, generosity also paradoxically increases our well-being. So being generous is a fantastic way to improve your mental health and well-being. And being generous doesn't mean we do things we don't want to do. It means we find the ways we want to help and take action!
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What stops us from being generous people? Lucky for us, it’s our default to be generous. But, we can accidentally override our natural inclinations to give it by over-relying on the “thinking” parts of our brains. Instead of following our natural impulse to be kind, we may come up with reasons for why shouldn’t give—maybe we want to buy something for ourselves or we are afraid of not having enough. But if our goal is happiness (either for ourselves of others), that’s a big mistake. We feel happier giving to others than spending money on ourselves. So try to overcome fear of not having enough, which can stop you from being a more generous person.
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How do we become a more generous person?
Once we are open to trying to become more generous (either to increase our own happiness or the happiness of others) how might we do it? We could give gifts on holidays, to acknowledge accomplishments, or just because we felt like it (that’s my favorite time to give a gift). We coud start a business that does good in the world. Or, we can also practice random acts of kindness—for example, by leaving a kind note for a co-worker, emailing a family member to tell them your grateful for something they did, or buying lunch for a friend.
How to make generosity more impactful
To make giving even more rewarding, focus on giving in ways that make a positive impact in someone else’s life (not just your life). The more we believe that what we give will be valuable or useful to others, the better it feels. And the more we know about how the receiver will use what we give them, the more we enjoy giving.
We really do want to know that we are making a difference and how we are making a difference. So give thoughtfully and intentionally. It just feels better—both to us and to the gift recipient.
We really do want to know that we are making a difference and how we are making a difference. So give thoughtfully and intentionally. It just feels better—both to us and to the gift recipient.